Pool Party West Hollywood

Pool Party Positivity: Removing Stigma from Status

My friend Larry invited me to a pool party, and naturally I was dying to go. His invite was followed by a call from Bruce, his fiancé (I guess husband now) to tell me a little bit more about the event I had just agreed to go to later that …

Alex van der Hoek

Gay Men are Dangerous

“Watch your drinks. Don’t let anyone make you anything.” “Get ready to have orgies everyday.” “You’re going to come back covered in STDs.” This is what they told me before I left for my trip to the BVI, which I’m sure you’re tired of hearing about. My friends and family …

Super Bowl XLVIII

Welcome to the Gay-List: My Superbowl 2014 Experience

What do you wear to a gay pool party in the Hills? “It’s been kind of cold lately,” I thought, so I put on some sweat shorts over my gayest speedo, a thin hoodie over my tank top, and some high top shoes instead of flip flops. I look twelve, …

Ferry to Lokrum Island Dubrovnik Croatia

Thoughts on a Nude Gay Beach

I just got off the ferry to Lokrum island spending ten dollars of my 14 dollar a day budget to get here. There’s no turning back now. Besides, the gay scene doesn’t really exist here except for this one beach, and I gotta have something for my blog. I totally …