STD poster Check yourself
Lifestyle

Slut-shaming an STD Poster

The office where I work just recently got new STD testing posters. At first I thought the posters were a clever way to get gay men to read the poster and get tested. They addressed all target markets including models of multiple races and they even used punny humor if …

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Alex van der Hoek
Lifestyle

Gay Men are Dangerous

“Watch your drinks. Don’t let anyone make you anything.” “Get ready to have orgies everyday.” “You’re going to come back covered in STDs.” This is what they told me before I left for my trip to the BVI, which I’m sure you’re tired of hearing about. My friends and family …

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Gay Friends with benefits
Personal

Friends with Benefits

I recently engaged in a “Friends with Benefits” relationship and for purposes of this article I will call him Yari. All of my friends were skeptical about the situation and warned me from continuing further. “You’ll develop feelings for him or he’ll develop feelings for you.” “It’ll get messy.” “You’ll …

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