Alex van der Hoek

Gay Men are Dangerous

“Watch your drinks. Don’t let anyone make you anything.” “Get ready to have orgies everyday.” “You’re going to come back covered in STDs.” This is what they told me before I left for my trip to the BVI, which I’m sure you’re tired of hearing about. My friends and family …

Goose British Virgin Islands

The Lost Chapter

I wish he didn’t live in DC. If he lived in LA this would be absolutely perfect. I think back to the first time I met him. We hadn’t even kissed before I asked him to room with me. He was it. I knew it. I wish I could meet …

Prince Cahrming and the art of being charming

The Art of Being Charming

On my trip, I’ve made it a personal goal to talk to people I believe to be significantly hotter than me. I’ll likely never see them again if they reject me and my thinking is that it’s easy to get nervous around beautiful people, but the more you do it, …