Andy Cohen Anderson Cooper Best Friends
Lifestyle

Why Don’t Gay Best Friends Just Date Each Other?

“You’re two guys. You like all the same music. You watch all the same shows. You have the same sense of humor and values and you both want a relationship. I don’t see what’s wrong.” Straight people (well all people, but straight people usually) are often confused why gay people …

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Glee Max
Lifestyle

The Decay of “Masc v. Fem”

With the rudimentary structure of Grindr a few years ago, users were only offered one picture with limited text. Guys then had to get to the point and ask for exactly what they wanted. “No fems.” “Masc only.” “Chill bro looking for same.” The reason most of us got into …

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Utah Gay Marriage Rally
LifestylePolitics

Gay Marriage: What Now?

As I was sitting outside with my friend Aaron (who is also gay), my phone buzzed in my pocket. Slightly tiffed that I had to interrupt my tanning session to respond to a text, I pulled it out of the pocket of my shorts to see who had messaged me. …

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Gay Guilt - The Normal Heart
Entertainment

Gay Guilt and “The Normal Heart”

Ever since coming out, gay men from the older generation have been trying to teach me about the travesty of the AIDS epidemic. “You don’t know how good you have it.” “You don’t know what it was like.” “You don’t appreciate how much we fought for you.” This kind of …

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Alex van der Hoek Gay Boy Guide Announcements
Talk Show

GBG Announcements

We have some updates for you about the site! Thank you for liking, sharing, and supporting our site! Subscribe to our YouTube Channel to follow and watch our new weekly talk show.  

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San Diego view of the beach
Travel

San Diego

It’s a slow-paced city where people seem to be content with life. Compared to other cities, very few of my conversations were about career or connections which gave me the impression that there isn’t a huge necessity to network or impress other people with your professional status. Even people with …

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Alex van der Hoek
Lifestyle

Gay Men are Dangerous

“Watch your drinks. Don’t let anyone make you anything.” “Get ready to have orgies everyday.” “You’re going to come back covered in STDs.” This is what they told me before I left for my trip to the BVI, which I’m sure you’re tired of hearing about. My friends and family …

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Open Relationships
Lifestyle

Open Relationships

  It’s no secret that the couples in open relationships are getting the most action here in the BVI and even though none of them are on my boat, we all hear the stories. We even hear that in the real world one of the couples allows each person to …

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Sunset in the British Virgin Islands Gay Boy Guide
Travel

The Gay Armada: The Stops and Interactions

Ok but seriously, where the hell did I go for one week? The British Virgin Islands are located just off the coast of Puerto Rico and we had to fly to the US Virgin Islands first in order to get there. Once we flew into St. Thomas we took a …

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Goose Hammock Back Marks
Lifestyle

Goose and Gay Chivalry

The straight community has been saying chivalry is dead. With a push for gender equality, men and women alike are viewing acts of kindness as power plays. Holding a door for a girl assumes that she’s weak and paying for her meal is a way of asserting dominance or control. …

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