Andy Cohen Anderson Cooper Best Friends
Lifestyle

Why Don’t Gay Best Friends Just Date Each Other?

“You’re two guys. You like all the same music. You watch all the same shows. You have the same sense of humor and values and you both want a relationship. I don’t see what’s wrong.” Straight people (well all people, but straight people usually) are often confused why gay people …

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Pool Party West Hollywood
LifestylePersonal

Pool Party Positivity: Removing Stigma from Status

My friend Larry invited me to a pool party, and naturally I was dying to go. His invite was followed by a call from Bruce, his fiancé (I guess husband now) to tell me a little bit more about the event I had just agreed to go to later that …

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Lifestyle

Rock N Roll Kickball SemiFinals

As the VGL Rock N Roll teams headed into semifinals we got the dirt on some of the players. Who’s talking smack and who’s ready to put money where their mouth is? http://youtu.be/QyNS4LUI2Ok For more information on Varsity Gay League here in Los Angeles, check out their site for ways …

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Varsity Gay League Kickball 2014
Lifestyle

Varsity Gay League Kickball, Summer ’14

The Varsity Gay League is an adult sports league that offers a variety of recreational sports programs. The Rock N Roll kickball league started playoffs this past weekend and I got to interview some of the other teams on how they were feeling going into their games. I play on …

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Depressed Guy I Don't Know My Status
Personal

I Don’t Know My Status

Being free, independent, and newly single, I was not looking for anything too serious. Hell, right after the breakup I wasn’t even looking for sex. The thought of being with another guy after three years and two serious, long term boyfriends was strange to me. I was timid and nervous …

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Glee Max
Lifestyle

The Decay of “Masc v. Fem”

With the rudimentary structure of Grindr a few years ago, users were only offered one picture with limited text. Guys then had to get to the point and ask for exactly what they wanted. “No fems.” “Masc only.” “Chill bro looking for same.” The reason most of us got into …

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Equality House Kansas
Travel

Visiting The Equality House and the Westboro Baptist Church

As my boyfriend and I drove through Kansas on our cross country road trip, we passed some crazy roadside attractions: Truckhenge (like Stonehenge but with Trucks and much less impressive), Prarie Dog Town, the Wizard of Oz Museum, the largest Czech Egg, and the 2nd Friendliest Yarn Shop in the …

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Utah Gay Marriage Rally
LifestylePolitics

Gay Marriage: What Now?

As I was sitting outside with my friend Aaron (who is also gay), my phone buzzed in my pocket. Slightly tiffed that I had to interrupt my tanning session to respond to a text, I pulled it out of the pocket of my shorts to see who had messaged me. …

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Jimmy Fowlie Go Go Boy Interrupted
Talk Show

Jimmy Fowlie, Life After Gogo Dancing

I sat down with Jimmy Fowlie to talk about his new show “Gogo Boy Interrupted” that delves into the life of a former gogo, Danny Carter. Jimmy talks about his own experiences that fueled the project as well as life with a theater degree and working with director Jordan Black. …

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Travel

Washington DC, A New Gay Capital

When we think of the great American gay cities, more often than not our minds jump to New York, LA, and San Francisco. I had never before considered DC a major gay city until my friends who lived there told me I had it all wrong. Alumni from Georgetown and …

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